Resetting the Palate
I mentioned in a previous post that after months of making our own food from scratch, I taste the fakeness of some prepared foods. That is not a very specific description, and is only a part of how our taste has changed.
I had worried that making all our own food from scratch would turn us into food snobs. Food snobs are lousy guests. One of my friends used to make her own pasta, but stopped when her four-year-old started refusing to eat store-bought pasta at other people’s homes. She decided to she wanted him to be a good guest more than she wanted him to eat homemade food. A good choice, and one that I thought about when we started our experiment.
But while everything-from-scratch has made my palate more sensitive to some things, I don’t think it has made me a bad guest. Making all our own food is hard work, and when I am occasionally treated to someone else’s food, I only feel grateful.
My palate has changed and returned to something more natural, although “returned” is probably not the right word, since I have never eaten this way before.
1. I no longer need the crunch. For the first month, the foods we missed and craved most were chips and crackers. Crackers had been a staple of our life with children. I tried a few recipes for making our own, but they were varying degrees of awful. If we had bought any one of them at a store, we would would have thrown it away and vowed to never buy it again.
But somewhere in the last two months, I lost the need for the cracker. Once or twice we have made chips, but the tortilla chips and Cheez-its and Ruffles that constantly cycled through our home are gone, and I rarely miss them. I do make my own crunchy granola, which satisfies the occasional crunchy longing, but I do without the fried snacks.
(Az wants me point out that he DOES miss them.)
As for crackers: every now and then when I make pie crust, I roll out the leftover dough very thin, cut it into irregularly-sized pieces, prick holes in them, and bake them. I sprinkle on a little salt when they come out of the oven, and the kids gobble them. It would not do as a staple, but as an occasional treat for the kids, it works.
2. I want less sugar. Don’t get me wrong; we still eat A LOT of sugar. I tried to measure how long it took us to finish a 10-pound bag of sugar, but Az unknowingly refilled the sugar canister before I could mark the day. Still, I know I am eating less. There is no high-fructose corn syrup in anything I eat.
The only things I make with sugar are things that are meant to be sweet. That may sound silly, but consider the store bought items that usually contain sweeteners, but don’t in our home: peanut butter, bread, crackers, soups, marinades and sauces, canned fruits and vegetables.
Cutting out accidental sugar has decreased how much I want sugar in general.
3. I want less salt. At first, we salted things as much as usual. And cooking everything from scratch does make salt very important. A small amount of salt can be the difference between something tasting right or tasting lousy. When I made Elise’s Asian Cole Slaw, my first taste was awful. Then I realized that because I was using single-ingredient peanut butter, my slaw lacked small amounts of sugar, salt and oil that were probably in hers. I added a tiny bit of brown sugar and salt, and it tasted great.
Cooking everything from scratch has trained me in a more judicious use of salt. Potatoes need salt; bread usually needs half as much as the recipe calls for, and most foods get by with none at all.
4. I long for fresh vegetables. In late afternoon, when my taste buds start revving up for dinner, I find myself daydreaming about tomatoes or onions instead of macaroni and cheese. I WANT it, rather than just thinking I should eat it.
5. Nothing can replace soy sauce. It cannot be done. I cannot make it at home, and I cannot replace it with something else. Living without it has been a difficult adaptation. Forget the golden apples of the Hesperides; soy sauce is the real miracle food.
Soy sauce shows an area of disagreement between Az and I: he thinks that since we can’t make it at home, we should cave and buy it anyway. I am more interested in discovering how living without it will shape our palates in the future.
6. Chik-fil-a biscuits have lost their glamour. During our days of sickness, we ate a lot of fast food and take-out, when we ate at all. I used to love Chik-Fil-A chicken biscuits for breakfast. Now – meh. They’re okay.
I mourn this loss a little.
What taste do you think you couldn’t live without?
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I can completely agree with you about tasting the fake in food. I swear I can taste artificial ingredients and my husband thinks I’m batty.
Very interesting post. I don’t remember your exact rules, but if soy sauce isn’t allowed, are tamari or coconut amino acids (Whole Foods) or Bragg’s Amino Acids allowed? Maybe one of them would work. I can’t eat soy sauce b/c of being allergic to soy and being gluten intolerant, but to mimic some of those flavors, I use either salt or umeboshi plum vinegar (which is salty) mixed with molasses and balsamic vinegar. Of course, it’s not exactly like soy sauce, but it gets the richness and umami flavor across. And now I’ve found coconut amino acids (I think they’re new out), so I’ve started using those on sushi.
It’s funny to find what you can live without. People who find out I’m gluten-free, egg-free, dairy-free, and soy-free either can’t imagine *what* I must eat or ask how I can live without bread. Of course, I can both make and buy bread (homemade is much better with these restrictions), but I don’t eat it nearly as often as I used to. Rice, acceptable pastas, quinoa, cornmeal—if I want starchy stuff, I usually go for those.
One of the things expat Americans consistently seem to miss most is mexican food. I have gotten quite good (she said modestly) at making mexican food from scratch…guac, tortillas (flour, since we can’t get corn meal), salsa, pico de gallo, plain yogurt or creme fraiche for sour cream, etc. Mmmm.
I miss single ingredient peanut butter! You can actually buy peanut butter in Morocco, but it is very expensive and tastes like Jif or Skippy. In the US, I only get the all-natural stuff, but with two ingredients–peanuts and salt. Extra crunchy.
We don’t eat all homemade, but since we moved overseas 22 years ago, we have been making the things that are either not available or not ivery good here. We use all coconut oil, make our own breads and other baked goods, even our own peanut butter, when we can find good raw peanuts. I can now taste the rancid oils in crackers… Bakery baked goods both here and in the USA smell and look wonderful, but are a big let down in the mouth. Gluey, overly sweet, flat tasting.
But I have yet to make a mayonaise that comes anywhere near Best Foods (Hellman’s), so we buy it, along with mustard, and soy sauce, which we can’t live without here in Asia! And for taco salad, I buy local chips for the crunch…
#4 is almost enough to sell me completely! I wish I craved veggies more. Especially as snacks. I’m almost always reaching for something sugary, even if it’s a piece of fruit.
While we try to eat as many whole foods as possible, we certainly aren’t “there” yet. I think I would have the toughest time giving up boxed cereals, which I frequently eat as snacks. Homemade granola, if I found a recipe I liked enough, might satisfy me for awhile, but my Honey Bunches of Oats, Great Grains and Quaker Oatmeal Squares would be missed.
I’ve been reading your Slow Food blog since it started and I’m so impressed. Congratulations on sticking with it and I’m thrilled to read of the changes in your palate. I dream of “everything from scratch” but with both parents working outside (and inside!) the home, it’s not a present reality for us.
You’re giving me lots of food for thought and I’m filing away all your great recipes and ideas.
What couldn’t I live without? Potatoes. But since they’re allowed, I’m in the clear. :o)
Thanks SO much for sharing!
International Delight French Vanilla coffee creamer. Is there even a recipe for it?
Saltine crackers… I love them.
Have you read this blog:
http://forums.egullet.org/index.php?/topic/103707-making-soy-sauce-at-home/
It was quite interesting but more work than I would care to expend–although the actual work wasn’t so significant, just the waiting for fermentation, etc.
Anyway, give it a look. I admire your goals. Keep it up for the lazy rest of us.
I think I’d pretty much die without chocolate. I eat it in great moderation, and the children aren’t allowed it, but mmmmmm…. Mama’s gotta have a little dark chocolate every now and again. especially during that Time of Month…
I really love reading about the process you’re going through, because I trust your honesty implicitly.
Let’s see: dark chocolate, I think. Other than that, probably a soy/sesame type of combo.
It’s funny, I was making fried rice the other night and wondered what on earth you did without soy sauce. Since I gathered it might be tough to ferment your own soybeans. I cannot imagine cooking without it, but the ingredient I would miss the most is:
Chocolate. Big hunks of dark chocolate. I’m thinking of giving it up for Lent and it gives me the shakes. I cannot fathom doing it for a whole year!
Thick, salty french fries. Not McDonald’s french fries but the kind you get in really good pubs, and dip in vinegar. Eeeee-yum!
For my entire life,my favorite food was salad with Wishbone Italian dressing. As a result of cutting cost and eating real food, I started making my onwn balsamic vinaigrette. I got a bottle of Wishbone the other day, and I’ve lost my taste. It’s a day for the books.
Aspertame.
Can’t live without it!
Really, though, I tend to use worchestershire sauce a lot. And I couldn’t live without rice, corn, or potatoes, though I think you were referring more to sauces and spices and such…
Just discovered your blog and have been reading back through your posts. I live in Indonesia (if you can track where your visitors are, I might come up as Hong kong because of our satellite Internet… not sure…) Anyway, we live out in the boonies and make everything from scratch. At least, I used to think I did, until I read your blog! I can buy some canned items and the like, and also some locally made snacks for the kids, but just about everything is made from scratch. There’s no fast food here. there’s one restaurant where we eat occasionally but it’s very greasy (and expensive!) and it really ends up being only for “emergencies” (i.e. I am sick and tired of cooking every single meal!) But unlike you, I haven’t lost my craving for Chick-fil-A biscuits! I think the difference might come because you have chosen not to eat them, where I just plain can’t get ‘em here!
So, I’m going to continue reading your blog. I’m fascinated by your adventure and really in awe of the choice that you have made in the “land of plenty.” To be honest, when we go back to the States, I really have to hold myself back from pigging out on all those foods I’ve been deprived of for so long!
I just found your blog through Frugal Hacks. While we have been simplifying our meals, I am not quite at the point of one ingredient items. It just might cause a Chip Revolution in this home, should I go as far as you have. I looked at your rules and am wondering if a substitute for soy sauce would work. Bragg Liquid Aminos are made only from soybeans and water. We tried this when we went gluten-free for a while to see if gluten was behind our allergies. Our health food store carries Braggs but here’s the link if yours doesn’t. http://www.bragg.com/products/la.html
Veronica, I transposed letters on my email on previous post. Sorry about that!
Something like this happened to us a bit when Isaac – who is now 10 1/2 – was 18 months old. the doctor thought he might have IBS, which was alarming, and we were told to take all high fructose corn syrup out of his diet. I wouldn’t have really thought there was lots in an 18 month olds diet, but since he was such a big snacker it turns out we had cereal bars and crackers that were sweetened with it, not to mention ketchup – oh what an 18 month old can eat with ketchup, but with out it? Not so great. Back then, there were not really lots of brands that had alternate sweeteners so we ended up in a quandary. Everything had to be re-evaluated and it took us all a little while to let our taste buds adjust to the less sweetened version of food that turned out to be, well, more food-like. We were also told to switch him to all whole grains. It turns out he does not have IBS, but I am grateful for the good advice of our pediatricians and grateful we made the changes.
I miss hot and spicy. The food we eat is good but never hot and spicy. I have a stash of hot pepper flakes that I secretly use on my plate, but if I could get ahold of the kind they offer at Pizza Hut, I’d be in heaven. Mmmm boeuf bourguignon or blanquette de veau with a dash Of Pizza Hut hot pepper flakes sounds good to me :)
I used to think I couldn’t live without chocolate, and then I tried making my own chocolate milk with almond or coconut milk, stevia, and cocoa powder. Very satisfying.
I would miss my Mary’s Gone Crackers. They are crunchy and satisfying. But i am trying a homemade almond flour cracker that might work.
I would miss Chipotle. Very much so.
WE eat FUNNY soy sauce on our diet – it’s gluten free and although it’s quite nice, it’s not much like regular soy sauce at all. It took a while for me to get over the shock of it.
I can make decent little cheesy crackers for The Baby. I CAN but I usually do not.
I’ve been thinking about this post for about a week now. What I could not give up is having access to a wide array of culinary-specific hot sauces: harissa, pickapeppa, cholula (sp), chipotle, chilli garlic, tabasco… Sure, I could make hot sauce from chillies in my garden but I couldn’t replicate the variety nor the specific flavours.
As for crunch, I make home made granola that’s plenty crunchy and satisfies me like nothing else. Especially when topped with plain yogurt from the local Farmer’s market.